The following “Question” was asked by a member of the congregation at Grace Community Church in Sun Valley, California, and “Answered” by their pastor, John MacArthur Jr. It was transcribed by Anjela Paje of Spokane, WA, from the tape, GC 70-24, titled “Questions and Answers Part 52.” A copy of the tape can be obtained by writing, Word of Grace, P.O. Box 4000, Panorama City, CA 91412 or by dialing toll free 1-800-55-GRACE. ©2003. All Rights Reserved.
Questioner
My question is our role and responsibility to the poor and homeless. It seems to
be a great challenge, many times, especially, once, you help a family, then you
help ‘em again, and then, you start taking on the financial burdens and then
you’re beginning to wrestle, especially, if you see them in the same position.
And, then, the topper is the claim of Christ, which means, they’re now part of
the family or they’re in the family. And, yet, they don’t go here, but they go
to another fellowship, and when you see them, you struggle. I guess, I need a
little help in trying to define my responsibilities.
John MacArthur's Answer
Let me tell you, first of all, the way you framed the question, indicates that
you’ve approached it the right way. You know, dumping a periodic check into the
United Way is not what the Bible talks about. Helping people in need means like
the Good Samaritan. You help the person that comes across your path that has the
need. You know, it’s not some institutional thing. It’s not, you know, take it
out of my paycheck approach. It’s getting involved of the lives of the people
who have the need, whatever the need is, a physical need, economical need,
emotional, whatever it is, and you invest your life in them.
One of the challenges with the homeless is, no matter how hard people try to
put ‘em in a home, they leave. I mean, this is just pretty much general conduct,
because they want an irresponsible lifestyle. They want a lifestyle with
absolutely no accountability and all of that. But, I think, where you go with
this thing is when you do all you can, the Bible says, “If a man doesn’t work,
he shouldn’t eat.” So, it’s the old story, you either give the man a fish or
teach him how to fish. I mean, you can help them for a while. And, we as a
church, do this all the time. But our limit comes; we will help someone with a
need, but when we see that that’s a chronic life pattern, we can’t feed that.
You can’t make a beggar successful. I mean, you don’t want to do that. I don’t
want to make any beggar successful. I’ll be glad if I come across somebody who
has a genuine need to meet that genuine need. But, I’m not going to make a
beggar successful. I’m not going to make a man who won’t work, successful. I’m
not going to let him settle in that kind of lifestyle. So, after a while, even
if he claims to be a Christian, you’ve got to say, “Any more, and I’m
contributing to your indolence, or your laziness, or your lack of effort.” If
the guy’s doing everything he can trying to find work, and trying to find some
way to make it, that’s a different story. But, if you see indications that this
is just sort of an endless gravy train kind of thing and then, I think, you do
them no favor to sustain that. But, again, you need to be wise, and trust your
wisdom and your instincts as you deal with people.
Questioner
It’s the first time I approached this. I found the family and the man works,
but, you know, expenses today are just a struggle. He works. He works all day,
but he doesn’t bring in enough to cover [what he needs].
John MacArthur's Answer
Well, those kind of people you can help, you can find ways to help them. If
you know somebody in that situation, you need to call the church. We have some
access to some resources to help those kinds of people, to get ‘em over that
kind of hump. Some of it is sitting down and doing some financial counseling
with them about how they budget, where they live, and how they could live,
maybe, more inexpensively. But, if it’s a desperate situation, there are ways to
help that kind of people. If you get strung out on a situation like that and
you, you want to help, but you don’t think you have the resources, let us know
here, so that we might be able to come along side and provide some of the
resources we know about.
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